I also use the stabilizer, but do not store as all gas here is ethanol 10%. I understand storing if you are remote rural, but I (personally don't like it). The guys are right, I think. If you detect no fumes by smell, probably ok. If you do smell gas the danger is trapped gas fumes and air in the combustible ratio that can ignite. If you do not smell it keep checking. Gas fumes are heavier than air and will travel along the floor . That is why mechanic pits are not allowed now and why electrical out lets must be (18"?) minimum height. Danger of spark. Garage water heater pilot lights have burned many houses down when combustible fumes reach them. Please be safe.
I reread your "confused" above. I think I'm right in saying the guys are all driving at the fact that ventilation dilutes the concentration of gas above combustion level. It is also true that pure gas fumes with out oxygen (air)will not ignite. It's the point between we're worried about.
Hence the experiment no one tries of putting a lighted match into the car gas tank (too rich to burn, movies aside). I am also (unfortunately) always afraid of attractive nuisance of outside storage wherein a vandal or child can torch your house (ain't life a mess?)
Finally ,do not fill your container up to the top. During temp changes a rise can force liquid gas past the cap.