I’d love to do this, but it’s not my family, it’s hers. I wanted to buy our own cabin and avoid all the future crap.
For all I know they’re gonna leave the cabin to him, which is fine. Worst case is they leave it to my wife, and her brother which means he will expect to be there 100% of the time, pay 0% of the costs, and 0% of the work.
If left to him only he will burn the cabin down, or destroy it by neglect. Family cabin gone forever.
Plus I’d like to get everything I. Place now while I’m working. I don’t want to deal with this when I’m retired.
We could get our own place and mom and dad can do whatever they want with man baby.
I’m seriously ok with staying home. She can deal with her brother, and the loss of the cabin in the future.