Been married 30 yrs this month, we have never had any problems, we enjoy different things when not working, niether is "forced" to enjoy what the other enjoys, we do go fishing together on occasion, our newly wed daughter and her husband are the same way, her mother in law has a fit when she lets her husband go hunting etc, she thinks he should have to ask permission to go. It drives me nuts when guys I play golf with get 4 or 5 phone calls from thier wives while playing checking on them and asking when they will be home, Oh and by the way my wife cuts the lawn, she enjoys working in the yard.